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The
problem is that most of the times we understand the meaning and also the
necessity of change ... but we don’t really feel it.
We
say “yes” ... we start doing things ... but we just pretend we really do the
change.
As
an example ... you have an addiction for alcohol ... you decide to stop
drinking, but when you see someone drinking ... you think again about the
pleasure of your addiction.
And
the chance to come back where your’ve been for such a long time is quite big.
But
why?!
Why
you can’t really make the change?!
Well
... it’s quite simple ... there is no connection between your mind and your
soul.
I
know that personal development tells us that “Fake it till you make it!” ...and
is kind of a trick to start the process of change ... but real connection with
the concept of change comes when you actually connect with the present moment
and you feel that you can’t continue anymore in the old way ... that brought
you to emotional bankruptcy.
An
individual that drunk for years ... if he understands that his life is ruined
because of the alcohol and feeling the need of change as something beautiful
for his life ... will make the change.
The
whole process ... is not a mental process ... but a mix between thoughts and
feelings.
I’ve
been also drinking for many years.
One
day i read on a blog the definition of an alcoholic ... and i was shocked ..
cause i was thinking differently.
The
guy with the blog wrote ... “An alcoholic is a person that drinks everyday ...
no matter how much he drinks” ... and i was drinking everyday.
One
day i decided to stop ... totally stop drinking alcohol.
I
realized that the alcohol changes me and my thoughts.
Even
if i was drinking only in the night .. it was stealing my energy of the next
day ... but it took me years to do it.
I
was not a ... let’s say a professional alcoholic ... but still i was an
alcoholic.
And
the change came only when i felt i want to be in control of myself everyday ...
in any of the moments of the day.
All
our decision should be a union between mind and soul ... and in fact decision
of change should follow beautiful paths.
Think
of the change ... plan the change ... but also feel deep inside you the must of
that change.
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ILLUSION OF CHANGEStatistic
shows that we only replace a reality with a similar one” written
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